When you are attempting to relate and do the work involved with TW Jackson’s book, the Magic of Making Up, one of the first problems you will encounter, and deny, is that you end up realizing you have lost yourself in your spouse. Have you ever lived in constant anxiety over doing everything according to how your partner wants it done? In effect, even though compromise in a relationship is an essential part of any relationship, denying who you really are is not healthy.

In the end, when you realize that this type of all-consuming relationship is dominating every aspect of your life, you will end up having severe identity conflict issues. This will result in resentment and you will have an extremely hard time reclaiming yourself and stay in the same relationship. This is predominantly due to the fact that your partner has become complacent in how you have been acting. TW Jackson’s tutorial on relationships allows you to “get over yourself” and have the tools necessary to reclaim yourself and not be detrimental to the relationship.